Bust it Baby: He said, she said; I am going to Do Me.

• It seems that no one is above, close friends and family minding their business, not even rapper Lil’ Wayne and actress Lauren London. With rumors circulating for months on the relevancy of gossip & grape vine talk, that was; the dimpled beauty is pregnant by Mr. “I wish I could fuck every girl in the world,” that could never satisfy the thirst of mass media to “hurray” with gleam when disparity or misfortune falls upon the news desk. It is now running amok all over the internet that, Lauren’s baby may not be fathered by Lil’ Wayne. It is also being said, that current other baby carrier and former singer, Nivea and ex-wife Toya are stirring the irons in the fire. But, statements from Lil’ Wayne are resounding loud and clear, he doesn’t care what they say, “I am the pappy!” No Maury show, no DNA just trust and love, that’s the most beautiful compliment any women can ever have; the unnerving trust and stability that no matter what anyone says, “you know me and I know you.” That’s the security relationships are made of. But, too often this is not the outcome. More likely men listen to negative talk by the closest people to him, and cause discord in an otherwise healthy relationship. When are talk just words and letters?
  

• Ignoring momma’s warnings and homeboys cautions are sometimes the hardest thing for a man to do. Often, in his heart he is 100% dedicated to the situation, but the constant tug-a-war between life time members and life partners causes him to make bad decisions. Woman we must stay strong and consistently remind him, that infidelity is a word left to those who are without honor. If he ask for a DNA test, (in a respectful way Fellas) give it to him. This means more to him then you. Not because he doesn’t trust YOU, but he wants those around him to silence there chatter. If he doesn’t that’s fine too, but—give thought to the fact he could be tortured by these people ill thoughts for years to come and if you step up to quiet the Nay Sayers, you will being doing you entire family a great service.
  

• It is always touchy and hurtful when your promiscuity and fetus are a topic of discussion. Being strong and firm in your truth will prove to be your light. It never hurts to start with an open trusting relationship from the start, but the most important person in this situation is the baby. Keep the child in mind when you are faced with adversity, and be respectful to the innocent.
  If you are in this situation and you are one of the ones who feel the female is not caring your love one’s child, my advice to you is; mind your own damn business. Nothing never lives under a blanket the truth will always rear its ugly head. Your job as a friend, family member etc. is to love who and what they love. That’s all. The rest is up to them.-Trina B.
  
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