It’s so easy to trust no one but yourself, but it becomes a task to place your trust in some one. We have often learned to deflect emotions and project dislike. For example, you are totally feeling someone opposite yourself, but to friends (when asked your status with this individual) you say, “It aint bout nothing!” But, in reality you are truly “feeling” her /him. Why do we become afraid of the possibilities of relationships?
Often times depending upon which sex is asked this very question, you could get an array of answers ranging from the most intimate, to some rather superficial. I’ve found most women are afraid of getting their “hopes up” about love only to be let down by broken promises and deceit. Although, some men have the same fear, a large group of men will say, “They are not ready yet.”
So where does this lead society? For women, they have turned to multiple partners to fill the void of one meaning full relationship. They have begin to fall victim to casual sex and relationships based on absolutely nothing but gratification. Most of these women cannot get a man to purchase them take out, none the less a real dinner date. Some women have fallen prey to the disillusioned belief that, “they are in control.” You are not. The power of the P.U.S.S.Y is alive and well, they were getting “head” from some chick before you, they should continue to do so while with you. Get your worth, value yourself. Just because you are an independent self sufficient women doesn’t mean you should not be treated as the beauty you are. Don’t allow these “new” male dominated over hyped statement such as “she got her own,” turn you away from being held in the highest regards. How many times have you found the good guy loving the neediest, bummed-out females on the planet? Think about it. Men are men, (real ones anyway) they have to feel needed out and they also have to feel like they have purpose. Keep this in mind, as you swim the dating pool.
So where does this lead society? For women, they have turned to multiple partners to fill the void of one meaning full relationship. They have begin to fall victim to casual sex and relationships based on absolutely nothing but gratification. Most of these women cannot get a man to purchase them take out, none the less a real dinner date. Some women have fallen prey to the disillusioned belief that, “they are in control.” You are not. The power of the P.U.S.S.Y is alive and well, they were getting “head” from some chick before you, they should continue to do so while with you. Get your worth, value yourself. Just because you are an independent self sufficient women doesn’t mean you should not be treated as the beauty you are. Don’t allow these “new” male dominated over hyped statement such as “she got her own,” turn you away from being held in the highest regards. How many times have you found the good guy loving the neediest, bummed-out females on the planet? Think about it. Men are men, (real ones anyway) they have to feel needed out and they also have to feel like they have purpose. Keep this in mind, as you swim the dating pool.
Fellas, its okay to have a serious relationship on your terms, don’t allow anyone to force the issue; it will only result in someone getting hurt. But, you should not be afraid of Miss Right, if you spot her across the room. Realize your strength with her and that could propel you into a dynamic future. If you find yourself in a situation where you are not sure; “DOUBLE CHECK HER STORY!” There is no harm in being sure. A large amount of women today, are playing some real games and you guys have no idea of how good they are at them. Watch your step, and proceed with caution.
As human beings we all have fears and in matters of the heart it can scare the toughest man, but, you must trust your instincts and your heart because they eyes can sometimes deceive the mind. The best advice ever given to me was this, “When man/women talks—LISTEN and when they tell you who they are—BELIEVE them.” –Trina B.
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